So just heard of this Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes calling it quits after their five years of marriage. Lahat expected na sila na! Pero eto, shocking! Ganyan talaga ang buhat kung ano't anuman ang reasons isa lang ang kahahantungan... wala na sila at di na buo ang family.
Pero why stay in a marriage if you're not happy? Perhaps, because you have a child or kids na unang unang maaapektuhan sa sitwasyon. It's the hardest thing you have to deal with.
Pero ano nga ba ang mga posibleng dahilan of why couples ended up being separated/divorce/annulled? Simple! Una, may third party at kung nagkaayos man may insecurities. Yeah forgiven na ang nangyari pero di naman kasi yan talaga malilimutan. Ang sakit naman kasi dibah? At kahit you both want to move on and you're trying to patch things out meron at meron parin yung mga tanong na, " Bakit niya kaya ginawa yun? " Masakit yun! Naman!
Pangalawa, either of you has an attitude problem. Kung mahal ka nang tao babalewalain nya yun? Pero kung ako? Why would I settle in that kind of situation kung kaya ko naman mag sarili at itaguyod ang mga anak ko dibah? Dagdag stress yan!
Pangatlo, kung alam mong sa buong panahon na nagsama kayo at pansin mong halos lahat doon e bitterness, and your unhappy... then go! Ika nga nila dibah God will never put you through anything you can't handle. When it hurts to look back and scared to look ahead, you can look up and find God... He will always be there for you :)
This was the convo we had with a colleague. Paano nga ba kung ang talagang sinasabi nang marriage contract niyo eh hanggang doon lang talaga kayo? Ipipilit mo? Kakabaliw'ng isipin. Sa bawat tipa nang keyboard ko hindi ko alam kung ano bah ang desisyong dapat kung gawin kung dito na kami papunta? Isa lang naman ang pinagdadasal ko sana... sana... huwag naman.
Wala lang talaga kaming magawa sa work kaya super chikahan lang in skype.
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